Book

Lady friends: Hawaiian ways and the ties that define

Cornell University PressIthacaPublished In 1999 • Pages: xi, 175

By: Ito, Karen L. (Karen Lee).

AbstractBrief abstract written by HRAF anthropologists who have done the subject indexing for the document
This is a study of six urban Hawaiian households. Ito interacted with household members, extended families, and friends; but focused on the mothers, who according to her, are the mainstays of the family. An important set of familial traditions is associated with interpersonal conflict. Disputes and their resolution are invoked by the metaphors 'entanglements' (HIHIA), 'loosening' (KALA), 'cutting' ('OKI), and 'to make right' (HO'OPONOPONO). Negative emotions, such as coldness, unkindness, jealousy, stinginess, and insincerity entangle and bind. They block the smooth functioning of social interactions on which reciprocity and community are based. Path-clearing ceremonies and clearing-the-way prayers are practiced to restore the set of positive emotions associated with the word ALOHA: love, generosity, affection, hospitality, empathy, and warmth. Ito argues that even though urban families are alienated from the land they are able to maintain their identity by practicing the above traditions.
SubjectsDocument-level OCM identifiers given by the anthropology subject indexers at HRAF
Gift giving
Etiquette
Ingroup antagonisms
Family
Informal in-group justice
cultureCulture name from the Outline of World Cultures (OWC)
Hawaiians
HRAF PubDateThe date HRAF published the document
2003
RegionThe area the document pertains to
Oceania
Sub RegionThe more specific area the document pertains to, which is located within the Region
Polynesia
Document TypeMay include journal articles, essays, collections of essays, monographs, or chapters/parts of monographs
Book
Evaluation
Creator TypeThe type of person writing the document, e.g. Ethnographer, Missionary, Archaeologist, Folklorist, Linguist, Indigenous Person, and so on.
Ethnologist
Document Rating A ranking done by HRAF anthropologists based on the strength of the source material on a scale of 1 to 5, as follows: 1 - poor; 2 - fair; 3 - good, useful data, but not uniformly excellent; 4 - excellent secondary data; 5 - excellent primary data.
4: Excellent Secondary Data
5: Excellent Primary Data
AnalystThe HRAF anthropologist who subject indexed the document and prepared other materials for the eHRAF culture/tradition collection
Ian Skoggard ; 2002
Field DateThe date the researcher conducted the fieldwork or archival research that produced the document
1973-1974
Coverage DateThe date or dates that the information in the document pertains to
1970-1998
Coverage PlaceLocation of the research culture or tradition (often a smaller unit such as a band, community, or archaeological site)
Kalihi, Honolulu, Hawaii, United States
NotesAdditional notes
Karen L. Ito
Includes bibliographical references (p. 155-171) and index
LCCNLibrary of Congress Control Number
99017552
LCSHLibrary of Congress Subject Headings
Hawaiians